Discouraging steady dating
According to research conducted by the National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy, there are many steps parents and other adults can take to reduce the risk of children becoming pregnant before they’ve grown up.
If you have regular talks, you won’t worry so much about making a mistake or saying something that is not quite right.Some parents of teen-agers apparently find it difficult to understand why priests object so firmly to early dating and going steady.The fact is that from their vast experience, priests know that early dating often leads to serious sins of impurity, teen-age pregnancies and illegitimate births, and to teen-age marriages which have scant hope of success.Age-appropriate conversations should start when they are young and continue through adolescence. Supervise and monitor your children and teens—know their friends and their friends’ families. Take a strong stand on your teens dating people significantly older or younger than they are.Help your teenager to have options for the future that are more attractive than early pregnancy and parenthood.He asked the pupils how far they thought a boy and girl who went steady could go in intimate contact with each other.
Only one teen-ager in ten thought that such a couple should do no more than kiss.
Be sure to have a two-way conversation, not a one-way lecture.
Ask them what they think and what they know so you can correct any misconceptions. Age-appropriate conversations about relationships and intimacy should begin early in a child’s life and continue through adolescence.
Let your kids know that you value education highly.
Know what your kids are watching, reading, and listening to.
Another one in ten thought that "light necking" should be permitted, while two in ten thought that petting would be allowable.